Feeling Good, Worthy and Validated

One of the desires of many people is feeling worthy and validated. If they can feel that way about themselves, then they will feel good about themselves. However, it is up to them to find validation within themselves. One common mistake that people make is looking for validation by trying to be others. This includes looking like the other person. One of the major issues with this approach is that people are not going to feel validated no matter how much praise they get from people. They are still going to feel incomplete because they will feel that their true selves will not get acceptance.

People try to fit in with fashion among many different ways. The only issue is that they do not truly transform themselves. They instead conform when they dress like others. As a result, they do not get validation. If people get validation, it is not them that gets it but the act and the image they present to others. However, when they do what others are doing, they do mention feeling good. When they post it on social media, they get a lot of praise which can help them feel confident.

For those that are a little more unique in tastes, it may help to find their own validation. They would be amazed how people will react when they present their true style to others. For one thing, they will come across people who actually truly like them for who they are. Then they will experience real validation and confidence, partially because it has started from within.

Society Shows the Irony of Fitting In

With this recent trend of copying others and looking like clones, there is one thing that is pointed out with this trend of copying others. One thing that has been pointed out is that people want to fit in. This is a desire that is felt by plenty of others. However, there is irony in this whole thing. As people try harder to fit in, they find themselves closer to being ostracized. It is when they decide to find themselves and be who they are that they start to be sought out and pursued by the group.

One thing about fitting in is that people are group oriented. With every group is a leader. Even though people may be in the group, the one who gets all of the attention or the respect if not both get it because they do not try to be the other person. They get the respect because they be themselves. They have their own likes and dislikes. Then others will follow them. This is one thing that makes them a leader. The others that try to be the other person make themselves followers.

One of the best things about fitting in is that the only way one is going to fit in is by being who he is. He is not going to fit anything if he tries to be someone else. This would mean he needs to find his own style and tastes and build on it. Then he will attract people that will like him for who he is.